(or how to design a life that works) - Learn about yourself ­ know when your health and wellbeing are being compromised and be prepared to change something - Make your role models people you wouldn't mind being stranded on a desert island with, rather than the have-it-all heroes. They rarely do have it all - Figure out the importance of both the provider and carer roles in your life. If you are one half of a couple, talk about how you might share these - Remember you are going to be working for a long time, so integrate your career into the seasonality of your own life and be prepared to see it wax and wane depending on the shift in your priorities Source: Ceridian Performance Partners {{LEADING EDGE }}